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Incontinence Myth Busting

October 2, 2025 . Elana

Incontinence, also known as involuntary urine leakage, is an issue many people deal with, and yet, it’s not very commonly discussed or well understood. For something that affects so many lives, it remains wrapped in stigma, silence, and quite a few misconceptions. The lack of conversation can make people feel isolated or even ashamed, but the truth is that urinary incontinence is incredibly common, and far more normal than many assume. 

That’s why today, we’re tackling some of the most common myths about incontinence and setting the record straight. Let’s get into it! 

Myth: Incontinence only affects elderly women 

Many believe urinary incontinence is something that only shows up in old age, usually in women after menopause. While it’s true that prevalence does increase with age, the reality is that it can affect people at almost any stage of life. For example, research in the Netherlands found that 36% of women between the ages of 18 and 39 experience urinary incontinence. Pregnancy, childbirth, lifestyle factors, and even genetics can all play a role, so it’s not an “elderly-only” condition. 

Myth: Incontinence is only a “me” problem  

Because of the taboo surrounding the topic, many people assume they’re the only ones struggling. However, this couldn’t be further from the truth. Incontinence is often under-discussed because people feel embarrassed or ashamed. But the truth is, it affects over 200 million people worldwide. In the Netherlands alone, 36.8% of adults report experiencing urinary incontinence. So, trust us- you’re definitely not alone. It’s a shared struggle, and opening up about it can help reduce the stigma. 

Myth: I just have a small bladder! 

It’s common to hear people joke about having a “tiny bladder,” but incontinence usually isn’t about bladder size at all. Instead, it’s often linked to the strength of the pelvic floor muscles. When these muscles are weak, they can contribute to an overactive bladder, creating an urgent and frequent need to urinate. The good news? Pelvic floor exercises and targeted therapies can make a big difference in improving bladder control. 

Myth: I can just use a regular pad to handle my incontinence 

On the surface, this might sound like a quick fix, but period pads aren’t designed for urine. They’re great at holding menstrual flow, but they don’t have the rapid absorption, capacity, or special materials needed to manage leakage. Incontinence products, on the other hand, are specifically created for this purpose, making them more comfortable, reliable, and discreet. 

So, there you have it: four common incontinence myths, busted! Incontinence is nothing to be ashamed of, and the more we talk about it, the more we can work together to break stigma and make sure people get the support and solutions they deserve. 

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